Understanding why you are stuck.

So you have read all the books, you know what you need to do to become more abundant in all areas of your life but experiences just keep coming up that keep you right where you are...What the hell?

Did you know that you have a default setting just like the computer that you are reading this on does? Yeppers it is called your unconscious mind and it tries to keep you safe right where you are. The unconscious mind picks up on all the experiences that you have in life and I do mean all and locks them away. The experiences that you have that are influential or have a lot of energy behind them are the ones that your unconscious mind set as your default. So when you have self doubt that you replay in your mind to yourself or verbalize to others or you hear something about you from an important, influential person in your life your unconscious mind takes that as truth and sets your default to it.

Your unconscious mind is also connected with everyone's unconscious mind so they without knowing it consciously either do things to lift you to your default or lower you to it, keeping you there. This process happens through energy that you put out and is picked up by others.

So the trick to changing your life is to change your default settings.

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You have to chenge and this is why!

So you are walking through a park and a big dog comes bounding up to you... If you are afraid of dogs you panic looking for somewhere to go, a way to get away from him... If you are a dog lover you are excited to see him and start talking to him and petting him.

So what is the difference here? It was not the dog, it was the person. So the moral to this story is that it takes your perception of the situation to change it. You have to change to make your life/world change.

So you don't like someone that you work with? It is time for you to change and the situation will then change to your specifications. Start doing things differently. take baby steps if needed. Bring them a coffee out of the blue. Start to picture what the perfect co worker would be like when you catch yourself fantasizing about cement blocks and duct tape. Seriously though you have to change because it is eating you alive. They are not changing, they are just doing what they do so start today to make that person, situation what you want it to be by seeing things in a new light. You will be amazed how the Universe will start to shift to make your perfect picture come to light.

This works with every situation that you are in that you are not happy with. The sooner that you realize this the sooner that things will change and make your life what you want it.

Have fun changing and create a great life!!

What daily challenges really mean

So the Law of Attraction states that we should enjoy what we are doing so every time I would hit a wall I would give up because it was hard and life is supposed to be easy, Right? Well this is what I have learned recently.

When you are changing and becoming your intended self and setting and meeting goals you are stepping outside of your own box. This means that youa re goign to run into things that you have never done before and they will seem hard and frustrating. What does this wall mean? It means that you are moving forward, get excited because you are reaching new heights in your life and this little bump should be looked at as opportunity to learn a new skill or way of doing things.

So don't give up when it gets a little hard, find a new way to get to the other side of these challenges and move forward happily toward your intensions.

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Shelly Epperly
Coaching you to your success!!!

It is time for you to live your life now!

Are you still waiting for things to turn around and go your way for once? Haven't you caught that break that would make it all ok? Still wondering why others are getting the things that you want? Yeah.... I have a little secret for you....

There are no breaks, turnarounds, getting what others have until you pull you head out. Sound a little harsh? Good I have you attention.

I used to think that same way until I saw the Secret and now I live everyday by the LAW. By now you have probably heard about the Law of Attraction, it has been in the news, written about, talked about, etc... So What is IT?!

Very simply it is your thoughts and feelings that create your life. Everything that is in your life right now has been created by what you think and feel about.
Example, You are affraid you are going to be late so you are putting alot of energy and feeling into not being late and then you are late. What why would that be? you ask. Well it is because your putting alot of energy into being late. Next time put that energy into being early and things will change, I promise.

Your first lesson on the Law.

It is time for you test this theory, so here is a great way to see just how powerful it is.

Close your eyes and think of an object, really see it, color, texture, shape, take it all in, all the details. Got it? Ok now let it go and see how long it takes you to see that object.

See you in the next lesson.

Shelly Epperly, Mentor/ Coach
mepperly07@aol.com