I hear others and even myself state that doors are opening or closing in their lives as if it is something that there is no control over. Do you realize that you are always holding the doorknob? If the door closes you have found a reason/excuse for it to close and if it is open and you walk thru it to a new opportunity it is because you have made that choice.
Every time you make an excuse of why you are not being who you really are you are slamming your own door. When you put out a desire for your self and then stick that "but I can't because" you have just shut that door. You can blame it on outside sources but it is your life and if you want that door to be open you have to grab the knob and open it. No signs are going to come along and tell you to, no time is better than right now. Now is all you have so make it what you want it and keep walking thru the doors of your desire. And Remember You are Holding the Door Knob of Your Life.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Friday, August 7, 2009
If you have Faith in your religion or spiritual life; What are you affraid of?
So I hear so many people that are afraid of all sorts of things but then the devote themselves to a religion or spiritual Faith. My take on this is if you are truly a believer what are you afraid of??? I know that we are all Spirits having a Human/Physical experience and the other side is our authentic self with no ego and no fear.
My point here is not that death is great although I have heard that it is, my point is we are here to have fun, experience joy and learn. So the next time you find yourself getting all caught up in the drama of whatever remember this and point yourself in a positive place and enjoy.
My point here is not that death is great although I have heard that it is, my point is we are here to have fun, experience joy and learn. So the next time you find yourself getting all caught up in the drama of whatever remember this and point yourself in a positive place and enjoy.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Are you Connected to Your Authentic Self?
Do you know your Authentic Self? and how in the hell do you stay connected with it? We are all Spirits having a Human experience so in order to stay connected to our Authentic self we have to stay connected to that spiritual side of ourselves.
Sound hard? Actually it is so easy and just requires you to let go of your ego and and relax about what ever you are stressing about. I know this sounds so difficult for some so I have borrowed a little bit form Jerry and Esther Hicks.
Just always picture yourself in a row boat on the River of Your Life. If you are a dreamer your River is flowing fast, if you are just getting started on your journey to happiness your river is a little calmer. Either case it is flowing and you are manning the boat. You can either turn upstream, work hard and go against the current of your life with lots of struggle and stress or you can let go of the oars (ego) and go with the flow and be you, the authentic you.
It comes down to this folks, all you desire is down the river and when you learn to relax and let it take you there you will get great things out of life.
Come back again soon and don't forget to follow my posts.
Sound hard? Actually it is so easy and just requires you to let go of your ego and and relax about what ever you are stressing about. I know this sounds so difficult for some so I have borrowed a little bit form Jerry and Esther Hicks.
Just always picture yourself in a row boat on the River of Your Life. If you are a dreamer your River is flowing fast, if you are just getting started on your journey to happiness your river is a little calmer. Either case it is flowing and you are manning the boat. You can either turn upstream, work hard and go against the current of your life with lots of struggle and stress or you can let go of the oars (ego) and go with the flow and be you, the authentic you.
It comes down to this folks, all you desire is down the river and when you learn to relax and let it take you there you will get great things out of life.
Come back again soon and don't forget to follow my posts.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
The Prosperity Game
This is a great game to get you thinking in the right direction.
Do you struggle with constantly being reminded that you really can't afford what you want? Just walking thru the store with my kids can be a real challenge when they want stuff too. So I understand it is hard to think with a prosperous attitude. Here is a cure to that...
Get yourself a notebook or better yet a check register that you don't need.
Start the first day with $1000 virtual $$ to spend and each day add $1000. Do this for a year and soon you will be spending hundreds of thousands daily. By the end of the year you will be spending $365,000.00. Yay. No carry overs just keep spending.
The great thing about this "game" is that it switches your mind set to always be able to afford what you want and to narrow down what you really want.
So go give this one a try and have fun changing your mindset.
Do you struggle with constantly being reminded that you really can't afford what you want? Just walking thru the store with my kids can be a real challenge when they want stuff too. So I understand it is hard to think with a prosperous attitude. Here is a cure to that...
Get yourself a notebook or better yet a check register that you don't need.
Start the first day with $1000 virtual $$ to spend and each day add $1000. Do this for a year and soon you will be spending hundreds of thousands daily. By the end of the year you will be spending $365,000.00. Yay. No carry overs just keep spending.
The great thing about this "game" is that it switches your mind set to always be able to afford what you want and to narrow down what you really want.
So go give this one a try and have fun changing your mindset.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Finding Yourself
So I thought that I had all ready wrote a post about finding what you really want and in looking back at the posts I have not done that so here I am.
I have always been pretty clear and focused on what I want and in working with others I am realizing that not everyone does so here it goes.
1. You can remember back to when you were a child and what you were passionate about. What did you want to be when you grew up? Are you doing that? Are you living your dream? No, well then you are in need of some re figuring in your life. If you are then good for you, keep in mind this dream can and does change and if you said you wanted to be a teacher when you were 10 and you followed thru with that and now realize that you are silently or loudly going insane and want something else then change it. You are the creator of your life so make it a happy fulfilling one.
2. Write down all that you are unhappy with now and then figure out what the opposite of each thing, now you have a list of what you want.
3. What are you doing in your life now that you truly enjoy? What hobby, sport, activity do you do now that you could do all day if you were able to? If yo love doing something that is what you should be doing. Your passion and knowledge of that is what will carry you thru life and share it with others that feel the same as you.
So there are some great ways to figure out who you are and what you want. Now go create a great life!
I have always been pretty clear and focused on what I want and in working with others I am realizing that not everyone does so here it goes.
1. You can remember back to when you were a child and what you were passionate about. What did you want to be when you grew up? Are you doing that? Are you living your dream? No, well then you are in need of some re figuring in your life. If you are then good for you, keep in mind this dream can and does change and if you said you wanted to be a teacher when you were 10 and you followed thru with that and now realize that you are silently or loudly going insane and want something else then change it. You are the creator of your life so make it a happy fulfilling one.
2. Write down all that you are unhappy with now and then figure out what the opposite of each thing, now you have a list of what you want.
3. What are you doing in your life now that you truly enjoy? What hobby, sport, activity do you do now that you could do all day if you were able to? If yo love doing something that is what you should be doing. Your passion and knowledge of that is what will carry you thru life and share it with others that feel the same as you.
So there are some great ways to figure out who you are and what you want. Now go create a great life!
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Are you struggling?
If so are you struggling with weaknesses or strengths? most people think that to make them a better person they need to work on what they are not good at, the truth is just the opposite, work on what you are good at and delegate the rest.
If you love to teach like I do and are not so great at marketing attract someone who is and then go with what you are good at. Just as an example.
The key here is to not struggle but to challenge yourself everyday to become a bit better at what you are good at and that will be the action needed to make you a happy, successful person.
The Universe sends more of what you are already experiencing so if you are struggling with what you don't enjoy you will get more of it. So... doesn't it make sense to do what you enjoy, challenge yourself and get more of the same all the time? Yeah then be happy and do what you love!
If you love to teach like I do and are not so great at marketing attract someone who is and then go with what you are good at. Just as an example.
The key here is to not struggle but to challenge yourself everyday to become a bit better at what you are good at and that will be the action needed to make you a happy, successful person.
The Universe sends more of what you are already experiencing so if you are struggling with what you don't enjoy you will get more of it. So... doesn't it make sense to do what you enjoy, challenge yourself and get more of the same all the time? Yeah then be happy and do what you love!
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Tolerance
Wow we all have been tested a bit with either family staying with us or us staying with family. Learning to see the good and let the bad roll off our backs is certainly a challenge for us all.
It is amazing what great things come from a great attitude with all of this. I strongly suggest reading A New Earth By Ecart Tolley (Sp) and learn how to let things go and come from your soul instead of your ego.
In all the chaos sometimes it is easy to forget that we need to accept our family for all that they are and nothing we say or do is going to dramatically change the way they are. We are all responsible for our actions and reactions so make the choice to let it roll off your back and enjoy the time with your family.
Write Thank you notes to all who touched you this Season and enjoy the gratitude that comes back to you 100 fold.
It is amazing what great things come from a great attitude with all of this. I strongly suggest reading A New Earth By Ecart Tolley (Sp) and learn how to let things go and come from your soul instead of your ego.
In all the chaos sometimes it is easy to forget that we need to accept our family for all that they are and nothing we say or do is going to dramatically change the way they are. We are all responsible for our actions and reactions so make the choice to let it roll off your back and enjoy the time with your family.
Write Thank you notes to all who touched you this Season and enjoy the gratitude that comes back to you 100 fold.
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